Every passing year my conception or my definition about love keeps on changing with some phrase added or removed. But one thing that has remained the same is my notion that “To be in love and to be loved are the two best feelings on Earth”. Love, as many say is a gift, virtue and a blessing, which ought to be kept so close to our hearts. It gives a new definition to our life. Only a person who is not in love will know how luckier, the guy who in love is, because he understands love is not a gift everyone can get so easily.

But what about these lucky ones???Do they really understand the beauty and essence of love??Do they understand that they are really lucky? From the world I have seen and the persons with whom I have acquainted I have just heard love lament, “Please give me a chance”. On one side, I see persons not accepting the true love, they get and they keep on waiting for the perfect match without knowing love is only as perfect as we make it. On the other side I see, lovers break up due to ego clashes and possessiveness. I don’t understand why people can’t give up their pride and ego just to the people whom they love a lot. Be it any relation, the wound created by egocentric problems takes lot of time to heal. The worst case is that u may lose the person for a lifetime. At times misunderstandings may ruin a perfect love. However remember, it is the things in common that makes a relationship enjoyable, but it is the differences that make them interesting ;-)

I was in for a shock when one of my friends said love is kinda business, where u give and take the same. I’m afraid if this is the mentality of today’s youth. Do they just see love as a kind of business or as an important element for social status or just to boast to people that they too can love without even knowing what love demands??Many feel a perfect love is accomplished just with a bike ride, a movie,a walk in the beach during the sunset,a dinner. Many forget true love requires something more than all this. Care, patience, understanding and all the more trust and loyalty. Well I still feel love is monumental and universal because of the fact love defies all reasons and gives you a blind confidence to add to your strengths! Love is always bestowed as a gift..Freely, willingly and without expectations. We don’t love to be loved; we love to love. Love is sometimes denied, sometimes lost, sometimes unrecognized, but in the end, always found with no regrets, forever valued and treasured .Inside every heart there is a longing to be understood by someone, who really cares, who trusts and loves you. Now it’s time to introspect! U look inside your heart, I ll look into mine! Let’s give Love a chance!


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5 Responses
  1. claypot Says:

    So ur tellin now is dat ur redy to give love a chance isit? ;P

  2. Vetri Says:

    Why are u not ready to accept love is a give and take business!!!!
    See Love is clearly defined by 3 elements.
    If u r speaking about romatic love..
    All 3 elements are necessary for being in love
    1. Emotional attachment.
    2. Commitment.
    3. Physical attraction.
    When even one fails....U cant say u r in love.
    So u r investing these things in a person, whom u love...right??
    What If u r not receiving it back??
    It pains..right? Clearly, u ve invested ur hurts u more...
    so why shud keep on investing something which depresses yu mentally..and keeps u off reality.[just in case u r not receiving it back]

    And machi if its not Romantic Love that yu are speaking about////then yea i wud say LOVE TO LOVE...theres nothing more, that gives yu happines and satisfaction in life.

  3. Benny Says:

    @ Vetri..I was thinking wat my next post subject must one..thanks ;-)

  4. Sridhar Says:

    machi though i have a romantic taste i dont accept this da....

    u hav 2 love definitely after ur marriage. so give it a break dude....

  5. Madhu Says:

    Awesome Blogg!I can see all truth spelled out there!..I acknowledge it!..LOve s beautiful but lovers these days r not(exceptions being a part ofcourse)!:))..


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